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Sure Signs of Attraction in Women

Women and men are said to be from different planets. Yes, they differ in a number of ways – from appearance to psychology, but they can’t live without each other. They are mutually attracted. When it comes to romantic relationships between the opposite sexes, the representatives of each want to be attractive in the eyes of their potential mate. Although attraction occurs naturally and often out of the blue, there are some universal triggers that each man and woman should be aware of. Psychology is there to help you understand the workings of attraction better.

The Nature of Female Attraction: a Deep Insight

When men wonder “What do women want?”, they also mean “What attracts women in men?” Women are very picky in terms of choosing a romantic partner. They are instinctively looking for the strongest and most reliable male – this is something deeply ingrained in their subconsciousness since the primeval times. Appearance matters too. There are many attraction killers, such as excess weight, boldness, untidiness, that turn a woman off. Consequently, good physique, developed muscles, good hair and skin, taste in clothes will work as female attraction triggers. A woman can fall for physical attractiveness, but this will be enough only for a short period of time. She’ll then assess the man by her other criteria regarding his personality and character. If he doesn’t attract her on a deeper level, she will not continue this relationship.

When it comes to assessing the man’s personal qualities, confidence is considered the biggest attraction. Usually, confidence and persistence are the features of an alpha male, and women are said to be instantly attracted to alphas. But this is not exactly so. The notion alpha male implies certain aggression and arrogance, and these characteristics are never attractive to women. Women value kindness and generosity – these two traits are found equally attractive by both genders. You may say that these are the signs of a nice guy, and this type of man is the opposite of alpha. Again, you need to know what this exactly means. Nice guys let their women take the lead, they are very caring and obsessively attentive. A woman will be most likely attracted to a man who is alpha and beta at the same time. He is kind and attentive, but he is a leader, he takes charge.

What is interesting about female attraction psychology is that the things women say they find attractive about men are often different from the things they really fall for. This is another evidence of women’s mysterious nature. If a woman likes a particular man, he can understand this by her behavior. The female body language of attraction is very rich, so you need to know how to read her signals right. I will dwell upon it later.

What Are Women Attracted to?

There are many things that attract women to men. Male sexuality, charisma, the ability to take a responsibility, a charming smile, etc. But the main attraction is masculinity. This is an umbrella term for a lot of men’s virtues.

female attraction psychologyEach woman creates the image of an ideal man in her head and expects to meet one. That ideal man has a list of must-have qualities, but in practice, a woman falls for some dominant aspect of man’s personality. Usually, the choice is made based on compatibility. For example, a family-oriented woman who plans to dedicate her life to family and children will be attracted to a man-provider, the one who can ensure financial security, who is a good family man, who will be a good father. A businesswoman will be most likely attracted to a businessman, who will be her equal, who will support her both at work and at home. A vamp woman is interested in handsome and interesting men that can be easily manipulated. An intelligent woman will be attracted to a smart man who shares her interests and views.

Are women attracted to money? This is a very frequently asked question. Yes, but not precisely to money itself. If a man is wealthy, that is he has money, it means that he is successful. It means he is ambitious and has achieved something. It’s important for a woman that her man has certain social status. If she knows he is successful and can provide for her and their future family, his appearance will be of little consequence to her. Women are genetically predisposed to want men who are potentially good providers. But what they are attracted in the first place is man’s success. Let’s be honest: numerous researches and experiments prove that men are mostly attracted to female beauty, and women – to men’s income.

Man’s age is also a factor of attraction. Women are attracted to older men. The gap shouldn’t necessarily be 20 years. Even if a man is 3 or 5 years older than a woman, she’ll feel more drawn to him. Why are women attracted to older men? First, a mature man is experienced thus he’s more confident and interesting. Second, he’s established his career and can boast financial independence. Women are most likely to be sexually attracted to men who seem successful even if they are not really. In terms of online dating, a man can catch a woman’s attention by his profile picture featuring him in an expensive car or standing next to a famous or authoritative person. Although she may get turned off when she realizes that is not his car and the picture with a star is a photoshopped one, but the instant attraction will be kindled.

Sure Signs of Attraction in Women

Once a woman feels attraction, she’ll start flirting. Her flirting will be covert, so you need to watch out for the special signs of female attraction. While it’s men’s prerogative to walk up to the woman they like and chat her up, women will send signals until a man gets that he is expected to approach a woman (or touch or kiss her – if it’s already a date). So the primary task for a man is to learn to decode female body language signs of attraction.

She steals a glance at you. When a woman feels attracted to some man, her instincts take over her and she starts to behave in a typical for all women way. She starts flirting using her eyes. She’ll cast a glance at you, then for a split second she will raise her eyebrows, then drop her eyelids and look away. If she repeats it, she checks whether you noticed her signal. This is one of those subconscious signs of attraction that women sometimes don’t even notice, while you can decipher it right.

She adjusts her attire. Preening – this is how women give themselves away when they are romantically attracted to a man. They want to make sure they look perfect, so they will smooth their dresses, touch the buttons of their blouses, etc. Usually, it’s a reflex – in fact, everything is okay with their outfit, but her subconsciousness tells her to do that adjusting.

She exposes her wrists. Long ago, when women wore long-sleeved dresses, and their bodies were almost completely covered, only exposed wrists were safe zones. If a woman hides her wrist, it means she is not into you or is quite nervous. But if her wrists are often in your focus, she’s exposing her safe part of the body, showing her attraction to you.

Her hands invade the space. Hands are the most mobile parts of our body. We use them when we’re trying to explain something, thinking of them as an additional pair of lips. Watch how your date holds her hands. If she’s hiding them under the table, she doesn’t feel comfortable. If she rests them on the table, it means she is open and totally in the moment. If her hands cross the invisible line on the table and move closer to your “side”, it means her attraction intensifies.

signs of female attractionShe crosses her legs over and over. If a woman is sitting in a position of crossed legs, it’s already a sign. This way she wants to show her legs from the best side. But if she crosses her legs frequently changing the legs, it means she wants to draw your attention close to her genital area. Although she does it without realizing, you are there to uncover her intention.

She touches her face and neck. It may well be that she just rests her head on the hand because it’s comfortable for her. But if she strokes her hair, neck, and touches the area around her lips, these are the signs of inner attraction to you.

She mirrors you. According to psychologists, if you are interested in your interlocutor and you feel some kind of affection, you’ll uncontrollably start to mirror them. It means you’ll sit in the same position, tilt your head to the same side, cross your legs if you see that your interlocutor does it. Now, look at your date: does she reflect you like a mirror? If you notice that she follows every your move, it means she is very interested in you.

She laughs at your jokes. She is already under the influence of hormones that caused attraction to you, so she feels euphoria. It makes her notice the best in you. If a smile doesn’t leave her face, it’s a sign she is attracted to you. Even a not very funny joke is rewarded with her smile. She is attracted to you and wants you to feel the same, so she’s using all her charms.

She blushes. The color in her cheeks gives her away. If she didn’t give a damn, she wouldn’t react this way. Emotions are closely connected with physiology, so her rose cheeks mean that she’s excited inside. And she’s excited about you.

She tries to touch you. A woman wouldn’t like any physical contact, even the slightest one, with a man she isn’t sexually attracted to. So, if a woman initiates light touches (accidental, as if), this is one of the signs of strong physical attraction. You should watch out for other signs of sexual attraction from a woman to know for sure you can make the first move or initiate a first kiss.

So, what should you do with all this knowledge? Use it every time when you catch a glance of a pretty stranger in a cafe. Or when you’re on a first date and want to know for sure that your date is physically attracted to you too. Knowing the psychology of attraction, you’ll know how to appear more attractive in women’s eyes in order to win them.

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