There is a situation in life of almost every man when he thinks about whether a girl likes him or not. If you one of them, then you may want to know what are the signs she likes you through text. Unfortunately, no one will be able to answer this question clearly. Each case of communication with the ladies is individual and requires a special analysis. We have several recommendations with the help of which you can understand (at least in general terms) whether your interlocutor is interested in you or not.
How to Know If a Girl Likes You Through Texting?
#1 You have a long correspondence
“How do I know if she likes me?” - This is the first question that a man asks himself texting a girl. So, first of all, you should determine how long your communication continues. If your correspondence lasts only a few days, then don’t analyze your relationship using this paragraph. But if you communicate for three weeks or a month, then be sure that a girl is obviously interested in you.
#2 She writes first
The first thing you should pay attention to is whether a girl shows special attention to you in the process of correspondence. This is determined by how often she writes you. You should know that girls, as a rule, are very intrusive and if they have special feelings for men, then they will always pay attention to them in order to arouse interest.
#3 Style of correspondence
One more thing that you have to take into account is whether she wants to write you. Does she write you in a positive manner? If a girl is indifferent to a man, she will not keep the conversation. Most likely, she will answer with short words such as “Okay” and “It’s clear”, etc. just because she doesn’t want you to think that she is rude. Or she may not answer at all. To understand whether a girl really likes you, you should listen to your inner feelings and look at things not through rose-colored glasses.
- She uses exclamation marks. Pay special attention to how often she uses exclamation marks. Numerous exclamation marks mean that she really likes this correspondence and, accordingly, that she likes you. “Hello!” gives more hope than a simple “Hello”, right?
- She laughs at your messages. This is one of the most obvious signs a girl likes you through text. If she laughs at your messages, then this is a good sign. But pay attention to how she writes it: if she sends “LOL” or “ROFL”, then it is not a very good sign because such abbreviation may be sent to anyone. “Hahaha XD” is better because she wants you to actually know that she is laughing right now. And in this case you may be proud of yourself — you managed to make her laugh.
#4 She remembers details
If the text of most of her messages is very common, for example, a question like “Do you know someone who can fix my laptop?”, then probably she is not interested in you. However, if her messages are more personal, especially if she asks you about your personal life and your ex-girlfriend, she probably likes you very much. Especially if she remembers the specific details that you once mentioned. This means that she remembers every detail you say. Also, she may ask an absolutely unexpected question such as “What would you do if you had a million dollars?” It can be a signal that she is looking for a reason to talk to you because she thinks about you.
#5 Questions she may ask
This will show whether she is interested in you as in man or not. It has to be interesting for her to know what you are doing, what you like to eat, what films you watch, what you did today. If she doesn’t ask you this, then she may simply have you as a “backup plan”. Some girls may hesitate to ask personal questions, but you should convince them that you don’t mind to talk about it. It is a lot worse if a girl is not interested in your life. If it is so, then you should pay attention to this and stop any communication.
#6 Hints in her messages
A simple hint in a message may be an invitation to a face-to-face meeting. An invitation to a party that she makes when you meet is certainly good, but it is much better when this offer is made spontaneously, when she casually writes something like: “I'm thinking of going to the pool…” Such messages may seem frivolous but, actually, they usually indicate that she can’t wait to see you.
#7 How she usually ends texting with you
If she doesn’t strive to end it as soon as possible but wants to talk longer with you — this is a good sign. Additionally, she may ask when you can talk with her next time or when you are free. In this case, her affection is obvious.
In general, we don’t advise you to delay real meetings and correspond too long. Everything may quickly die down even if a girl was interested in you at the beginning of your communication. Therefore, call her as soon as possible if you understand that she is not indifferent to you. Ask her out on a date and don’t be afraid to communicate in real life. Remember that girls like self-confident men!